I went through a break up with my ex not long ago. He cheated on me and he is cruel. I have tried to move on but he insists on staying friends but I don't want to because he is always being lovey-dovey to his new gf/my best friend. I need help! Any advice?



Regarding staying friends, that's your choice. If he was stupid enough to cheat on you, you don't have to stick around and be in his life. In fact it would be a good thing to do the 30-day cleanse which is mentioned on my site where you have no contact with him for a month. Thats what one of my clients did and it helped tremendously! Though some need more than 30 days, but still its a start. I'm sorry to hear he cheated on you with your best friend, that is just...not okay. I would also try to keep distance from her as well, because obviously she didnt respect you enough to say no to your now ex boyfriend. My overall advice is , hang out with some girl friends, do the whole breakup movie thing where you girls talk about your ex and how horrible he was to you, and watch those movies that get your anger out, and then once youve vented, start to move on. Try to go out to the mall with friends and scope out the new guy scene or just do things that make you happy in general. Focus on work if need be, that can be a good distraction.

"I have a guy at my church I really like I was practically fainting 2 years ago when he got up on stage and sang a love song for a savior he has a voice like an angel ive just kind of liked him for these 2 years and then we went to CIY in the same group and he sat behind me for 3 whole hours he was constantly pulling on or locking my seat belt and it only made him laugh and do it even more when I got mad then on the 4th night he went up during worship and confessed I offered him a hug and he really hugged me it was crazy I felt like I was on cloud nine for the rest of the night my friend Emilie said she saw the muscles flex in his arms O.o no clue what that means XD but after CIY it went back to normal...he didn't touch me or even talk to me so 3 weeks ago I slipped a letter into his backpack confessing my feelings but didn't sign my name....and he never talked to me or anything"




From the sounds of it he was flirting and teasing with the pulling or locking ur seat belt. After a confession someone definitely needs emotional support and you being there was a very good thing. The muscle thing means he was hugging you tightly or with a lot of emotion. 

Maybe try striking up a conversation with him when you guys are in church or in the group and see how he responds. If he responds not so positively then I would just "screw him" and move on. Why waste time on someone who isn't interested right? If the news is good, then keep talking to him, and then you can become closer and then see if there is a possible romance. 


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"So, I like this guy, but I'm too nervous to talk to him. I feel like if I do, I'll bore him or he'll think I'm a loser or something. Is there any way I can try to get the courage to talk to him and get him to like me? It's so nervewrecking around him!"




I know the feeling all too well! First off are you guys friends? Acquaintances? Are you just starting to get to know him? If you are just starting to get to know him, first off know what he likes and is into. Try talking about something he likes, maybe he is a fan of hockey, do some research about hockey and strike up a conversation that way, then maybe as the conversation flows you guys can shift topic. That's one way to start a conversation. Also if you get nervous have a friend tag along with you, or be by your side when you strike up the conversation for moral support. Also remind yourself that he isnt the ONLY guy in the world, and if things don't work out it isnt the END of the world. Remember this: If you aren't worth his time, then he isn't worth your time.



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"I'm invisible to guys:( I'M FRIENDZONED BY EVERYONE. I've had like one boyfriend in 16 years and my friend has a one year old daughter:/ I must be doing something wrong!"




When I was younger i was also invisible to guys. The second I "grew up" to speak and moved away from home guys were noticing me left and right. It could just be the school or environment that you are in right now and maybe the pool of guys is really limited! PLUS if a guy doesn't notice you, then you shouldnt notice them because if you aren't worth their time they shouldnt be worth yours.Trust me you aren't doing anything wrong, maybe it's not the right time, you know the saying right person wrong time, maybe it's the right time wrong person.




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"Hey, do you know how to let a guy down easy? We're good friends and he is a sweetheart. But I don't want to date him. He's asked me out twice already and even got me a valentine present."







Awww that sucks, tell him that you want to keep your friendship and that being together might destroy that forever. (cuz when friends get into relationships and break up it can be the messiest) Tell him that he is a great guy and he will find a great girl, but it's not you. And if you want, get one of his guy friends to help him go scope out some new girls that way he can develop a new crush which will help him move on from you.




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"Hey girl so I really like this guy and my friends say he flirts with me all the time but how do I found out if he likes me or not?"


Well there's always the direct approach of asking him, but that can be quite nerve wracking. Maybe try doing something like going to dinner and a movie, make it sound casual but see his reaction when you suggest it and if he agrees pay attention to the vibe. Also if you have a mutual friend you can ask that person to ask who he is into.



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"Ok. So there's this guy that I've been crushing on for nearly a year. But....um... He's 17....and I'm 13. I know, that's weird. I even think it's weird. But I can't help it. He's the sweetest, nicest, coolest, most gorgeous guy I've ever met. We hardly talk, but our families are friends. So we see each other a lot. The problem is, I don't want to like him anymore. I don't want to have a crush on him. I don't. But every time I see him or even think about him, those feelings come back and I don't know what to do. I just feel so lost. I wish I could find someone like him who was my age."



Aw okay. Yes there is an age difference. Age can be a complicated thing when it comes to the heart. Once you have gone onto college age doesn't really matter as much, but at this point in your life yes age is of the importance. When crushing on someone it is often hard to stop "crushing" on them. My advice would be to hang out with your girlfriends, and maybe try to meet some guys your age. Try to keep your distance from Mr. 17 and that can make it easier to stop. The more you are in contact or the more you see the person the harder it is to stop liking them. Distance would be the best thing, and of course meeting someone your age who you can relate to and enjoy their company.

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"Me and him are best friends. Now that we are in middle school it's hard for us to spend time together because we aren't on the same team (it's a thing our school does). My guy friend asked the guy I like who he liked. He said he was choosing between me and another girl.  So when I confronted him, he said that if I didn't believe him saying that he didnt say he is choosing, then I don't love him." 



Well that's just immaturity and insecurity speaking. He is probably scared that you know (if it is true). Or he is hurt that you would think he is choosing between you and another girl. I think you two still need to talk about it, because when there's a third person everything can become tangled. It's better face to face with the person the problem is about.


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"After the grand explosion of her relationship, seventeen-year-old Max Scott developed what every girl in the history of the world has been waiting for: a way to get over being dumped. Now Max is the go-to guru for heartbroken high-school girls all over NYC. But when her ex unexpectedly shows up in her neighborhood, Max’s carefully controlled world starts to unravel. With her clients’ hearts hanging in the balance, Max will have to do the seemingly impossible: get over him once and for all.

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I am reading it right now (taken only 3 days) and I am IN LOVE with the story! If you are just getting out of a relationship this is the book for you!


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"Um okay I'm seventeen me and my ex got together last year September a week before my birthday. We were good until like February he suddenly started stop texting and calling me(we texted and talked everyday before that) and he would pass me straight in school and he just completely stop talking to me. I have a strong personality I am told so I went to the road of f!!k him but now I've cooled down I'm just confused. I don't know if I should confront him because before we were friends for like five years and let it go to waste?"


Hmm that behavior does sound strange... Did he ever have a friend that wasn't fond of you? Because as the saying goes "Bro's before Hoe's" not that you are just that's the saying. So if one of his guy friends wasn't fond of you that could be the reason he stopped talking to you. And honestly ask him what's up, like just go point blank and be like "What happened?" just so you know, so when you have a future relationship you know what to avoid and such.


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