Falling In Love (Infatuation, in Lust)Signs/Symptoms:
Pheromones (Lock and Key type of deal)
The problem is, after a period of time we build up a tolerance to it, which leads to falling out of love Opposites attract!
Testosterone
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Falling Out Of Love (& Ego Boundaries)Signs/Symptoms:
Built up tolerance to PEA EGO BOUNDARIES IN LOVE ~ your boundaries overlap and you see things together
OUT OF LOVE ~ Boundaries do not overlap and you are more objective in viewing things.
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LOVE
You do it! It's a behavior!
"The will to extend oneself for the purpose of nurturing ones own and/or another's 'spiritual' growth'"
You make a contribution to your own or another's well being. You do not have to feel good about the other in order to love them!
You make a contribution to your own or another's well being. You do not have to feel good about the other in order to love them!
The 5 Languages of Love- Gary Chapman
- Service - Where you do the things for them even though they are perfectly capable of doing it on their own. Ex. Making them a cup of coffee
- Physical - Touch
- Words of Affirmation - Likes to be told straight up that they are loved and cared for. Ex. "I love you" , "You are the most important person to me"
- Time - Spending time with them
- Gifts - Material things
If you are aware of your partners language of love, then you have a higher chance of getting along and surviving as a couple. Some like to receive in one language and give in another.
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